Random Thoughts about LOVE

There are many forms of love on earth (that I would not go on detail, you should know it already). We wanted to be love, the way we hoped we do, but in reality, you can see love is quite unfair, you may love even more, you get hurt but you choose to love and give the opportunity to grow with the person. 

1) Love is all about ACCEPTANCE 

When you love, you accept everything there is about the person. I got to encounter people outside my family who actually had different sexual orientations in life with their respective partners. I accepted the fact, at the end of the day, its not their orientation in life (sexuality) that you deal with everyday, it is the entire being as a person. My heart will be forever with them. 

Love is accepting that nothing is perfect, you make mistakes, you change beliefs, you experience challenges, but love makes everything look so surreal, no matter how hard life maybe. 

2) Love is not just about ME, its about YOU.

We want to be love the same way we love (right?) but what if you were both trapped in the situation that the other cant love you the same way you do? 

This is where patience will come along - when you accept that you love the person, you are willing to wait - no matter how hard it takes and you are willing to love, no matter how stupid you feel you are at the moment. 

Love can make you crazy - for relationships that may seem to be distant, relax do not panic, there will come a time that if you are meant to be with each other, you will be together peacefully. Sadly, there are relationships that end (but let's not dwell on that shall we?) 

3) Love is not SELFISH 

You love then you expect to get everything back? That's selfishness brother. Love is giving everything without expecting anything in return, you deserve to be love and you are made to give love. 

4) We are made to love, so love freely.

We should never cage ourselves in engaging to others who can only give us less than what we expected to love, we are made to love so love freely.

True love knows no boundaries, you don't limit yourself with what you think is due, you love because it is right. The heart we have is made to sharing your life with others. Go out and love.